My lover Val and I are going to be heading down south for just a week. Val is really happy and can’t wait to live with me. Val is already picking out our desks, looking at nearby restaurants and already talking about the plans ahead. I am super worried about residing together. I just don’t see Val and I coexisting really well as a pair. For 1, I am super weird and I adore to be left alone. Val cares about to spend every waking moment together. Now I adore to go on long walks and exercise weekly. Val is not a fan of doing this and does not see it as a priority… Lastly Val entirely loves his a/c. I hate going over to his apartment due to his horrible cooling. He correctly blasts the a/c when he is even sort of hot. I am typically too chilly when I am in his apartment. In the car he has all the windows down and the AC working on high. I never can take off my coat when Val and I go anywhere. I adore that I feel I can go back to my own home and crank the gas furnace. If Val and I live together, I can’t escape the a/c. Val will literally have AC going all of the time. I will typically be super cold or Val will typically be too warm. I feel what Val and I will have to do is get Heating, Ventilation, and A/C zone control and sleep in our own rooms. Val and I each can have a ductless mini split a/c and heater.